WOMAN'S THIEVERY IS DRIVING HER SISTER MAD
Dear Abby:
My sister, "Pamela," constantly steals things that belong to me.
It can be anything from underwear to jewelry.
When I catch her wearing whatever she "borrowed," the belongings go missing.
Pamela then claims that she returned them.
I have to beg, cry, and finally search her room and car to find them.
Most of the time they'll be ruined.
This is causing a great strain on my life and our relationship.
It has reached the point that I have told my sister I no longer want anything to do with her because she's deceitful, hurtful and selfish.
I honestly think she has some sort of OCD or does it for the thrill.
Oh, we are not teenagers. I am 26 and Pamela is 24.
We are both adults with master's degrees and full-time jobs.
-- FED UP IN QUEBEC
Dear Fed Up:
Excuse me, but how is Pamela able to take possession of your property?
If you're living under the same roof, have a deadbolt lock installed on your bedroom door and use it while you're out.If not, have your dwelling re-keyed.
Your sister cannot steal and destroy that to which she doesn't have access.
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WOMAN'S THIEVERY IS DRIVING HER SISTER MAD
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Dear Abby:
My sister, "Pamela," constantly steals things that belong to me.
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It can be anything from underwear to jewelry.
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When I catch her wearing whatever she "borrowed," the belongings go missing.
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Pamela then claims that she returned them.
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I have to beg, cry, and finally search her room and car to find them.
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Most of the time they'll be ruined.
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This is causing a great strain on my life and our relationship.
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It has reached the point that I have told my sister I no longer want anything to do with her because she's deceitful, hurtful and selfish.
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I honestly think she has some sort of OCD or does it for the thrill.
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Oh, we are not teenagers. I am 26 and Pamela is 24.
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We are both adults with master's degrees and full-time jobs.
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-- FED UP IN QUEBEC
Dear Fed Up:
Excuse me, but how is Pamela able to take
possession of your property?
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If you're living under the same roof, have a deadbolt lock installed on your bedroom door and use it while you're out.
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If not, have your dwelling re-keyed.
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Your sister cannot steal and destroy that to which she doesn't have access.
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